I found someone who is like a BABY, my own VIRTUAL BABY! I found someone who COMPLAINS ADORABLY! And does he ever complain! I have been indoctrinated to be complacent, submissive, because I grew up being a FEMALE! It took me a long time to find someone that I had ANY "chemistry" with. But I finally found the right male for me! He is "KEN" to my "BARBIE", too!

It seems like only men are ALLOWED to complain these days,and my Ken "doll" is like an ADORABLE BABY when he complains! Guess that is the secret of how and why he gets heard and listened to, plus that he is so "HOT". It is mostly only HOT men who get heard nowadays, well mostly all men at least SOMETIMES get heard and listened to. Of course, some other "identities", i.e., celebs and the 1% who seem to have special "privileges" also get taken "seriously", too. There is a way to "run an end game" around these limitations of who gets to complain, and whose complaints get heard! I finally realized that I have to CONNECT with a male in order to become accepted as justified to exist at all!

Having children is an alternative to partnering with a complaining male. But since I'm 66 I doubt I could do what that Italian woman did a few years ago and fool my gynecologist so that I could get hormone treatments and get pregnant. Plus I doubt I would qualify to adopt a baby or a young child. I doubt that I would qualify to be a foster parent, because I am sure I would be considered more like a baby, myself!

But now I can be more like others, because I found "my better half", I found my permission-to-complain-by-default, I found a way to be seen, heard and justified, by being with Ken, who does all my complaining for me. Ken does MY complaining subliminally! My own projected complaints come out of his mouth because he "READS" my heart and soul and "IS" me!