It hardly makes any difference if we go to war with Iran, or for that matter if there is a third world war, even a nuclear holocaust, because we are DEAD already, at least emotionally! All we are permitted, or permit ourselves, to do is to perform, and we are so used to performing from our earliest momments that we have become unable to know the difference between performing and living. The marines that urinated on dead corpses were indoctrinated long before going into the military to PERFORM a touchdown victory end zone ritual.

The real war is taking place within each one of us, wherever we are in the world. We think we are warring with evil others, we think we are warring to prevent war, we think we are warring to protect our selves, our families, our quality of life, our values. What we are really at war with is the truth about how emotionally dead we already are. We call those who reveal how we are emotionally dead "inhuman", "unhuman" like for instance those marines who urinated on the dead. Such actions are indicators of the insidious pornification of force that we all become indoctrinated with on our journey from birth to death with little if any true life intervening.

From our earliest moments of intimate omnipotence with ourselves,we are limited by parents and or caretakers(in loco parentis) with the hard nosed puritanism of the discipline of guilt. We are made to feel guilty for any and all self pleasure so we quickly learn that only performance for self and/or
others is acceptable, so we delude ourselves that self and other performances "Tebowing" etc., IS life. We mistake PERFORMING for HAVING a valid self to BE intimate with and for bringing that intimate self to others, who likewise have a valid self instead of a PERFORMANCE of a self. Emotional intimacy involves living a life that TRANSCENDS performance, by becoming aware of the difference between the drama and ego of performance and intentionally choosing emotional self intimacy and emotional validity unless immanent life and death NECESSITIES, as opposed to contingencies, intervene that requires a fight or flight instinctual reaction.


We will keep going to war to prevent us from becoming aware that the anger and hate we justify, derives from the delusion that performance is living. We choose to believe and value optimal performance in terms of money, fame and power, instead of valuing
emotional self intimacy. We believe that money, fame and power or other limited values like rewards after death in the hereafter,is the most life has to offer us, and/or we have a hope for our progeny to have more successful performances than we did, or that our legacy is a unique or stylish performance that will be matchless but always attempted to be modelled.

Really living involves transcending performance and achieving
emotional self intimacy an emotional validity that is free
from ego and drama and so this emotional validity is often
mistaken for weakness and vulnerability. This is because
emotional self intimacy is often misunderstood by most, if not all others because the COMMUNICATION of real life, the
transcendence of performance, involves an awareness that
emotional self intimacy is valued instead of ego and drama
and PERFORMANCE. This threatens all others who value performance and the ego and drama involved in all performances.

Our limitlessness, our limitless power was stifled from when it first emerges, when we are born. If we could be free from restrictions when we are infants instead of the social and cultural limitations that are imposed on us, we would be truly living with all the power and intention of our limitless nature. We would live, with living agency, living intention, living instinct, living intuition, we would be living life and living love and living humor and living presence instead of what we are now: living death!

Visualize an infants omnipotence, and by extension how we all could be if we dared to risk reclaiming our birthright to emotional self intimacy, emotional validity: the infant wants, the infant is PURE want. The infant is everything,and everything is it, until we try to take away everything and define the infant with an identity: a gender, a race, a name, a class, a nationality, a religion, etc. We fear the infants omnipotence, the want of everything and we limit the infants wants to what is politically correct:CONTROL.

But for our intervention of limitation, the infant would be pure intention, pure want, pure take, pure pleasure. We are so frightened, made so jealous by this pure pleasure life existence that we almost immediately intervene with limitation and negativity, i.e., we start the process of killing life before full life ever begins.

We can all start getting back our limitlessness, our emotional self intimacy, our emotional validity. One way to begin to reclaim this is to recognize that our self intimacy, our validity is constantly under attack and DESERVES to be under attack to the degree there is ego and or drama present. However, any intentional or even any unintentional attempt to limit our emotional self intimacy, our emotional validity that has been purged of any ego and/or drama needs to be treated as if it is death to what is our valid EMOTIONAL life.

In other words, IMHO, we mistake ego and drama for EMOTIONAL self intimacy, and emotional validity. All kinds of dramas based on ego identity limitations are mistaken for limitless omnipotence, and this ego and drama falsely "promise" us security and safety in the future, but the "promise" is "paid"
for by us giving up our birthright to emotional self intimacy in the present, and what we pay for is the appearance, the PERFORMANCE of death in life!

We are, understandably,frightened to become newly aware of how we are all emotionally dead to ourselves. We need to know there is limitless mental and physical well being that accompanies emotional self intimacy, a self validity that activates the immune system so that the body and soul, mind and spirit become potentiated to the degree you free yourself from ego and drama. We need to believe this in order to actually risk to DO something to start to emotionally FEEL again.

We all stay emotionally numb, with family, relationships, drugs, liquor, sex, food, sports, compulsive consuming, busy-work that we pretend is meaningful, but if we are ever questioned about these meanings as being PERFORMANCES, there is immediate defensiveness and a forceful call for a "right" to privacy, which "right" is really just resistance to the awareness that the "meaning" itself is a mere PERFORMANCE, a PERFORMANCE OF DISTRACTION!

We vigorously defend these PERFORMANCE DISTRACTIONS as priorities, when all these distractions are doing is replacing living a life with performing a "death", namely the "death" of our emotional self intimacy. We are afraid to begin to long for the emotions that were crushed, bullied, etc., out of us as infants, and toddlers. But instead of stuffing this resentment and distracting ourselves with continuous ego and drama performances we CAN begin to really live instead of just PERFORM!