Are you looking to date a plus size woman you really fancy a lot? Maybe you’ve not dated a BBW before, but there’s no big deal in that. Dating plus size women does not have much difference from any other type of dating. The differences are far and in between. There are rules you need to observe when asking a big woman out. First you have to gain her attention by doing some necessary things. Below are steps you can take to successfully ask a BBW out for a relationship.

Get the right profile

If you met her on a dating site, you have to set up your profile to represent your personality. If your profile picture does not depict your personality, get a good looking photo and upload more pictures of you. A BBW checking you out will not be satisfied with only one photo you have in your profile picture. Get more of your photos that actually speak a lot about you. Your profile is your gateway to the mind and hearts of potential dates. It’s important to take some time to set up your profile in the best way possible.  You can include photos about your occupation or hobby. Whatever you enjoy doing, it will be a great idea to have photos about that on your profile. The way you arrange your profile will determine the potential dates that will check you out.
I must repeat, your photos should be as clear and crisp as possible. If you can afford it, get a professional photographer to take your photos. A trained photographer will help you take professional photos that will befit your personality. To be able to attract the right BBW, your photos on your profile should be clear enough and of the highest quality.

Your profile needs a great tag line

A tag line is an introductory statement about you that people see whenever they search your profile. It sets the right tone about your personality and let people see what you stand for. You can write a great quote about what you feel about life. Even if you are not really sure of what you can say, there are lots of quotes you can borrow. Just search online for great quotes by popular people. Pick the right one that really defines your personality and include it on your tag line. When anyone reads it, they will want to relate with you to know more about you. This is one of the first things you need to do when setting up your profile for online BBW dating.

Adding text to your profile

In addition to a tag line, you need to include text on your profile. A lot of people make mistakes in this aspect. Your text shouldn’t be too long or too short. If it’s too long, people will loose interest mid way. If too short, you may not be able to pass the right message. Your text description should be about two paragraphs, 4 sentences per paragraph. This is the most ideal length your description should have. This text is talking about you, so you need to express yourself in the best possible way. Use words that correctly describe who you are and what you stand for.
You may include a little information about your educational background, geographical location and your mantra in life. However, there are certain information you don’t need to include. Obviously, you have to take any personal info off your profile because this is a public forum and you never know who may want to dig deeper about you. Remember that not all users registered with the site are actually there to find dates. Some are just there to scam people. So, you have to be careful the type of information you share on any dating site.

Use subtle and nice words when chatting with her

It’s always a tradition for men looking to date women to use nice words and talk to them in a very polite way. You can’t win her heart if you begin by showing your masculine attributes. This may come later in the relationship. But to get her attention, you need to be a gentleman in your communication. When you guys get chatting, ask her out in a nice way. But before you ask her out, make sure you both have discussed for some time. It will be awkward if you just ask her for date at the first time you are chatting with her. Unless she just wants to flirt, she may not agree to your request.

Conclusion

So many people make the mistake of thinking attracting a BBW and finally getting her to date them is easy. It’s not as easy as some may think. Just because they are overweight doesn’t mean they don’t have options for dates. You are not the only one asking her out and she needs to be sure you are a gentleman before accepting your request. That’s if she likes you. So, you need to take it very serious when creating your profile. Understand that she is a woman and all women have similar ways to approach them. Once you have set up your profile, go ahead and chat with the one you admire and see how things go. But remember to be very careful with information you put up on the site. The site may be genuine but not everyone who uses the site is genuine. Overall, with the right profile and the right approach, you will certainly have that BBW of your dreams.