Men are too private and men expect women to read their private minds. Women have had to be more serious, more worried about any and all eventualities, while men have been free to "play", even if the "play" often has serious outcomes, like war, etc. For instance, in war there is always an aspect of game play or team play(nations, armies, navies, etc.)Today, men either overpower using physical force or they are "pussified" metrosexuals. Too many men complain while "women hold up (MORE than) half the sky", as a revision to the old chinese proverb goes.

Men are fearful of loneliness today. They stay in loveless arrangements for insurance against loneliness. Very few men today are able to drop the "L" from LONELINESS so that loneliness becomes one-liness. Few men today dare to risk being separate and outside of the (status quo) "box" of tradition, custom, ritual.

Most men want to PERFORM derived COMFORTABLE SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE IDENTITIES: stereotyped hyper masculinities of gender, race, religion, nationality, ethnicity, class, instead of EXPERIENCING any original identity. Men are so afraid today of even saying "Hello!" to women, for fear of being called out for harrassment, stalking, etc., so women have to give men insurance of a sort by consenting to be friends and even being friends must be conducted in groups of friends today. Even communication is at a distance. Men will call up instead of knocking on a door, to avois being told that they may be knocking too loudly! lol

Men today are pressured to always be grateful to be included in groups, gangs, families, because the solitary man is to be feared or at least is placed under more scrutiny. Even an unmarried man is looked at today as suspect, especially one over 30.

Men have become so boring today because they are more like girlfriends now. Metroxuals, and most men, too, are now more interested in the smallest details of relationships, home furnishings, clothiong, all kinds of food prep and cooking,etc., because they fear taking charge of anything meaningful, especially in relationships.

Metrosexuals especially but more and more men, too, will settle for meaningless sex, just so that they can PERFORM as if they are pets doing athletic stunts to please women. What is most dissapointing is that the metrosexuals of today are fearful of PRIMAL FEMALES, namely women who have had to be on their own and have, as a result "grown" or "adopted" the cohones that metrosexuals have lost!