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Honduran Girl Hanged Herself After ICE Rejected Father's Asylum Claim for Third Time
Written by <a href="index.php?option=com_comprofiler&task=userProfile&user=51195"><span class="small">Ray Sanchez and Ed Lavandera, CNN</span></a>   
Friday, 19 July 2019 13:06

Excerpt: "Manuel Gamez clutches the hand of his only child, her dark eyes partly open and her motionless body blanketed by intravenous lines and a breathing tube."

The 13-year-old daughter of Manuel Gámez, Heydi Gámez García, lies in a raised bed in a Queens, New York, pediatric hospital room. (photo: Mark Kauzlarich/CNN)
The 13-year-old daughter of Manuel Gámez, Heydi Gámez García, lies in a raised bed in a Queens, New York, pediatric hospital room. (photo: Mark Kauzlarich/CNN)

Honduran Girl Hanged Herself After ICE Rejected Father's Asylum Claim for Third Time

By Ray Sanchez and Ed Lavandera, CNN

19 July 19


anuel Gámez clutches the hand of his only child, her dark eyes partly open and her motionless body blanketed by intravenous lines and a breathing tube.

His 13-year-old daughter, Heydi Gámez García, lies in a raised bed in a Queens, New York, pediatric hospital room. A pair of stuffed animals sit by her side.

Gámez hadn't seen Heydi since he sent her away with a hug and kiss from their violent hometown in Honduras four years ago. He says he feared for her safety after her grandfather was gunned down by MS-13 gang members.

Since then he's tried repeatedly to join her in the US, only to be rebuffed by immigration authorities.

But this is not the reunion he and his family imagined.

Heydi, who had been despondent about being separated from her father, attempted to hang herself earlier this month in the suburban Long Island home of one of her aunts. Doctors say she is brain dead and won't recover.

Immigration officials released Gámez from a Houston detention center last week on a 14-day humanitarian parole "to tend to the matters of his daughter's passing," according to an order from US Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). He is to return to Texas July 27 to face deportation.

The 34-year-old father and his sisters faced a wrenching decision. They took Heydi off life support Thursday evening, and plan to bury her early next week in a Long Island cemetery, nearly 2,000 miles from the town in northwest Honduras where she grew up.

"Please forgive me for failing you," Gámez says he will tell his daughter. "I'm sorry I couldn't be there... I never meant to leave you."

They sought a safer life in the US

Heydi's short life -- a story first reported by The New York Times -- is yet another reminder of the human toll of the ongoing immigration crisis at the US-Mexico border and beyond.

Gámez says Heydi's mother walked out on the family when the girl was less than two months old. They have not seen her again. He says he moved to New York as an undocumented immigrant when Heydi was about one, leaving her behind with his parents in Honduras. He worked for several years on Long Island, where his sister Jessica had settled after being granted asylum.

In 2014, he says he was forced to return to Honduras after MS-13 members, angered over his father's refusal to make extortion payments they called "war taxes," shot and killed the 59-year-old man in the street. With the health of Gámez's mother rapidly deteriorating, he said he worried about who would look after Heydi and his younger sister, Zoila.

The following year he sent Heydi to the United States with an uncle, followed by Zoila, now 21, to protect them from MS-13. Heydi was granted asylum in June 2016. ICE documents show Zoila was granted asylum the following year.

Heydi's aunt Jessica Gámez, 32, says the girl adjusted quickly to her new life in the United States. She learned English in less than a year, did well in school and loved listening to music and visiting a local Chinese buffet.

Heydi spoke with her father almost every day, teaching him new words in English and correcting his pronunciation, he recalled, his eyes welling with tears. She spoke of becoming a nurse or a pediatrician or even a Hollywood actress.

"She was a normal kid, happy and mischievous," Jessica Gámez says. "She had many dreams. She was very smart."

But she longed for her father to join her.

Three times he crossed the US-Mexico border. The first two times he was detained and sent back to Honduras. The third time was just last month.

Gámez kept promising Heydi they would soon be together.

"Heydi was always asking, 'When is papi coming?'" Jessica Gámez says. "I would tell her to be patient. We're doing all we can."

A father's struggle to rejoin his family

Gámez's quest to join his daughter in suburban New York predates the Trump administration's hardline stance on immigration enforcement, including family separations at the border and forcing some asylum seekers to remain in Mexico while their cases make their way through immigration courts.

In April 2016, Gámez was picked up by US Border Patrol agents near McAllen, Texas. He was ordered removed in September, and deported to Honduras early the following month, ICE said.

Gámez and his lawyer, Anibal Romero, said immigration authorities concluded the basis of his asylum claim was not credible. CNN has not been able to verify this with ICE.

He tried again in September 2017 but was detained near Santa Teresa, New Mexico, ICE said in a statement. Gámez was convicted of illegal re-entry in late October of that year and sent back to Honduras a second time in November, ICE said.

US Citizenship and Immigration Services, which screens most asylum applications, declined to comment on Gámez's case, citing privacy concerns.

Romero, his attorney, says Gámez is just one of many immigrants in the US who are good people and only asking for an opportunity to become legal residents.

"How is it possible that man who is running away from his country with his kid and his sister gets sort of caught up in this broken immigration system where his daughter is granted asylum, his sister is granted asylum and he ends up getting deported?" Romero wonders.

Every failed attempt by her father to reach the US plunged Heydi into a deeper depression, her relatives say.

Gámez worried about making promises he couldn't keep, such as vowing to be with Heydi for her quinceañera, or 15th-birthday celebration.

"She was losing faith," he said.

Gámez recalls a phone call with his daughter shortly before his final border crossing. According to ICE, immigration authorities apprehended Gámez June 1 near Sarita, Texas.

"She was crying, 'Papi, you'll never make it. They always catch you,'" he says. "I promised her, 'Daughter, this is the last time I try and God will grant me the opportunity.' But I got caught again."

Heydi's fading hopes

In recent months, Heydi's dream of a reunion began to fade.

Heydi lamented to her aunts that, unlike her classmates, she did not have a father or a mother to visit school. In December, she cut her wrist at school and was taken to a hospital for a psychiatric evaluation, Jessica Gámez says. Heydi also was seeing a therapist until about two months ago, she says.

Jessica Gámez says Heydi even talked about returning to Honduras. The girl said her "life had no meaning" without him.

"I feel I didn't take proper care of her. Like I failed her in some way," says Jessica Gámez, who lived with Heydi at her home in Bay Shore, New York, about an hour and a half east of New York City.

"I was suppose to protect her," she says. "I would never send her to Honduras. But I never thought something bad would happen to her here."

One night in early July, Heydi broke down in tears to Zoila. She said she no longer believed the stories about being reunited with her father. She spoke of becoming a lawyer to help him win his freedom.

Heydi then said she wanted to be alone. Two hours later, Zoila Gámez discovered her niece had gone into a closet and tried to take her own life. She did not leave a note, relatives say.

One week later, doctors at Cohen Children's Medical Center in Queens declared Heydi brain dead.

"Heydi arrived in a neurologically devastated state and there was no hope for recovery," Dr. Charles Schleien, a senior vice president at the hospital, said in a statement.

"We've worked with this family and supported them through their anguish with our multidisciplinary team. In the end, they chose to turn tragedy into the gift of life. Heydi is an organ donor and her final act will be to save others."

Wearing a GPS-monitoring ankle bracelet, Gámez held a bedside vigil with his siblings at the hospital. Sometimes he and his sister Jessica took Heydi's hands in theirs and wept.

"We love you," Manuel Gámez whispers to his mute daughter. "Don't leave us."

Outside the hospital, Jessica Gámez struggles with her own grief.

"I tried to give Heydi all she needed," she says. "But her only dream was to be with her father."

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+10 # chapdrum 2019-07-19 17:58
Don T. approves.
Nothing to see here folks.
+5 # Rodion Raskolnikov 2019-07-20 05:20
So all the blame goes on the immigration people and MS-13. They are only reactors. The real blame goes on US foreign policy which has destroyed nations like Honduras all over the world. This story has been repeated thousands of time from almost every country on earth. What about the people fleeing the US terrorist war in Syria, Iraq, Somalia, Sudan, Libya, Venezuela, and many more?

US foreign policy must change. It has been the same for centuries. Bolton and Pompeo have been citing the "Monroe Doctrine," a murderous and colonialist policy from the 1820s. That's 200 years ago. We need a president in 2020 who will formally and loudly declare an end to the Monroe Doctrine. This will be an executive order ending all US regime changes in nations south of the US border.

It was Obama and Clinton who overthrew the Zalaya government in Honduras and created the tragedies described here. No one is apologetic for that.
0 # lfeuille 2019-07-20 17:22
Obama and Clinton are not is power anymore. Trump is. He has amped up to unimaginable levels what they started. He is the one who has to be stopped. Future policy has to change, but that can't happen while he is in office. It can only change once he is gone. It shouldn't take another 2 years.
+7 # kgrad 2019-07-20 07:31
How many deaths will it take till we know that too many people have died?!
+3 # Rodion Raskolnikov 2019-07-20 14:24
I don't think there is any limit. The US began as an empire, an offshoot of the British empire. At first its conquest was only North America. It killed probably 90 million indigenous peoples. It fought Mexico and Spain.

In 1898, the empire went global. The US has conquered people and killed million in every area of the earth. The pace continues to grow. I don't think there is any limit to the US killing. I don't think the American people will ever know. They still think their government is bringing "freedom" and "democracy" to "backward" people of the earth.
0 # Kootenay Coyote 2019-07-20 19:53
'The answer is blowing in the wind....'
+7 # Kootenay Coyote 2019-07-20 07:50
Meanwhile Trump, on hearing the news, danced a little jig of joy: one less drug dealing gang member to deal with! Heil me!
+8 # suzyskier 2019-07-20 08:42
Absolutely heartbreaking! How cruel . I don’t see how ICE can justify not allowing him asylum considering the circumstances in Honduras! Just have Ice in their veins as well. ICE is on a Power Trip a very dangerous one, do they wear Jackboots and Brown shirts yet? Disgraceful.
+7 # Stilldreamin1 2019-07-20 09:47
The human tragic cost of putting a narcissist in charge.