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America’s Uncivil Phone Manners

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Written by Walter Brasch   
Sunday, 13 January 2013 21:27
Wednesday, I called the newsrooms of Pennsylvania’s two largest newspapers.

All I got were disembodied voices telling me no one was available and to leave a message.

It was 11 a.m., and I thought someone—anyone!—should have answered their phones. But, with publishers doing their best to “maximize profits” by cutting news coverage and reporters, I figured they either didn’t have anyone capable of answering a phone or figured no one would be calling with any news that day.

So I left a message. It was a routine question, specific for each newspaper and related to verifying information from their papers for a book I was completing.

I left another message the next day. I would have called individual assignment reporters, but unlike the websites of many smaller newspapers, the metros’ websites didn’t have that information. Apparently, they don’t want readers to know who does what at their newspapers.

Nevertheless, no one called back. I wasn’t important enough.

Calls and emails to an agent for an actor, who I was trying to get for a public service announcement for a national organization, a few weeks earlier weren’t returned. Nor were calls and emails to a national talk show host I was trying to secure for a paid speech to a different national non-profit organization.

Nor were several calls and emails to the producers of pretend-folksy “Ellen” ever returned. In that case, I had a “straight-A” student, who was a mass communications major with minors in marketing and dance. She was one of the best students I had ever taught. She wanted to be an intern. You know, the kind who don’t get pay or benefits but get experience. There were jobs available. It took several calls to others who were affiliated with the show just to find out the names of producers or contacts. But no one from the show returned any of my communications, whether by email, letter, or phone calls. Not even to say my advisee wouldn’t be considered.

Celebrities and their companies get thousands of emails and phone calls. To the average citizen that would be overwhelming. But, to corporations, especially those who deal with the public, there should be sufficient funds in an operation that makes millions a year to hire staff to respond to viewer communications.

Most of the smaller media take pride in returning phone calls or responding to letters from readers and viewers. But something must happen when reporters and producers move into the rarified atmosphere of large media.

It’s too bad. Big Media show arrogance to the people, and then spend countless hours wondering why the people don’t trust them.

Unfortunately, the loss of civility isn’t confined to those who are celebrities or part of the Big Media Morass.

A call to a company that installs home generators went to voice mail, and then wasn’t
returned. A call to an individual who advertises that he cleans out gutters and water spouts also wasn’t returned. A call to a university department was answered. The receptionist said the lady “isn’t around.”

“When will she be around?” I asked.

“Don’t know,” came the response.

“Do you think she’ll be available later today?”

“Maybe. You could call back.”

In many cases, the people are left with the belief that others just don’t care. Or, maybe they’re too busy. Or maybe they just forget. Or maybe they’re too busy texting and tweeting to have time to deal with people. Unless, of course, they think we’re at least as important as they are.

Then, they fall all over themselves to talk with us.

Even with these annoyances, most calls are answered; most times, I (and I would hope others) are treated with respect. Most times, receptionists and staff take extra time to try to solve problems.

Nevertheless, more and more we see a loss of civility by people and organizations that may think they’re just too important to deal with the people. For the large corporations and the celebrities that have multi-million dollar budgets, perhaps their PR and marketing efforts should first be focused on dealing with the people rather than splashing us with large-scale media campaigns to convince us that they matter. Failure to do so will leave us believing that they, not us, are the ones who don’t matter.

[Walter Brasch is an award-winning syndicated columnist, author, and former multimedia writer-producer and university professor. His latest book is Before the First Snow: Stories from the Revolution.]


 

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+4 # Dhimmi 2013-01-14 13:36
Good on you, Walter Brasch.

My particular beef of this sort is against the Congressman who won't accept email from a citizen who has rather more depth of specialized training than he about the focus of one his committee assignments -- because the citizen doesn't live in his state. This is especially poignant when the citizen has been recently solicited by the man's fundraisers.
 
 
+3 # Firefox11 2013-01-14 18:08
Agree. Congress should realize that it governs at the beheast and permission of the American people, no matter where they live in the country.
 
 
+3 # Firefox11 2013-01-14 18:09
Just the title of this piece, America's Uncivil Phone Manners, suggests the need for a new etiquette of a technological, global age. Who will teach it?
 
 
0 # Youtube-GlobalPrison 2013-02-03 06:11
Phone manners?
Being polite and calm is the key to good conversation and earns you respect.

The whole World has been exposed to American movies and music...and the movie and music industry since the 1980's has been full of cuss words- which has spiraled into a full slanging-match on television shows/movies/mu sic. The violence, rudeness, hate, anger and spiteful cussing has spread across the World into a majority of television networks-progra mming people to become rude and angry.

It has influenced daily lives to the point where now little kids run around swearing their head off.

You probably don't even notice the amount of times you will hear nasty, rude cuss conversation in young people and adults and on television every day...

In just 3 decades conversation politeness has gone out of the window and has been replaced by cussing and nastiness...not everywhere and in everyone- but in a majority of people.

The minority of people who still consciously practice politeness are aware of how nasty and rude conversation has become and try to counteract the cussing with calm and polite wording.

I recall a young kid of about 5 or 6 running after a friend on my street shouting VERY loudly 'Hey Mother******'

That's the rudeness and cussing that as a society we have allowed to escalate, and so many young kids often now sound like angry hip-hop rapsters, regardless of where they live. It's sad and annoying. It gives you a headache.
 

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